Qualities of Good Divorce Lawyers
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Qualities of Good Divorce Lawyers

Choosing a lawyer is like choosing a doctor. You want to find someone who suits your personality and legal needs. Just because someone is a good lawyer does not mean that he or she is your lawyer. When you are looking for a divorce lawyer, remember the following tips:

 

  1. Check out the lawyer’s personality.

 

If the lawyer is too enthusiastic or impatient, it may not bode well for you, or it may be too good for you. Divorce is stressful. You need a calm lawyer so that he or she can help you stay calm. You will also want to find a lawyer who is willing to take the time to answer your questions and understand what is important to you. For example, suppose the most crucial part of a divorce is obtaining a reasonable custody settlement. In that case, you will want to avoid that the lawyer will continue to settle the financial settlement in your discussions.

 

  1. Do not underestimate the power of modern technology.

 

One option you can complete yourself is one of the software programs. You can more quickly and easily complete property division and support for children. Also, sometimes it is easy to keep in touch via email when both of you are busy (as long as your lawyer does not object to phone calls and face-to-face meetings when more detailed instructions are needed).

 

  1. Find somebody who is not afraid to be straightforward.

 

Your lawyer should be willing, to be honest with you and understand the divorce law. His knowledge of divorce law makes him honest about the results you might expect. If your request is likely to be against you, your lawyer should be honest. Similarly, you will feel pressure during the divorce. Your lawyer should remind you what is essential, the one you should and should not pursue.

 

  1. Make sure your lawyer understands the complexity of divorce.

 

Divorce is not just a legal issue. It involves laws, crazy emotions, children, property, money – you name it; it requires a divorce. Listen carefully to what your lawyer has to say. If you only hear about winning or losing, then the lawyer may not have heard everything you told him that affected you. You need an expert who really understands how to support you when you go through the divorce process and let you know your options.

 

  1. Find someone you can afford.

 

If you are worried about paying lawyer fees, you need to meet with a lawyer to make some fair arrangements. You may change the hourly rate to a flat fee plan, which clearly explains what is involved.


Finding a lawyer is not as simple as calling the first person found on the yellow pages. Before making a final decision, don’t be afraid to call a few divorce lawyers and discuss your expectations and specific circumstances with them. It’s also helpful to seek advice from people you know.